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Baby Juan Luiz is the most recent addition to our Several Sources Shelters Family. He was born on February 16, 2001 and is one of over 15,000 babies that have been saved through the efforts of the Several Sources Shelters since Founder Kathy DiFiore took into her own home her first pregnant teenager in 1981.
Kathy says that Several Sources Shelters started with the Prayer of St. Francis of Assisi, "Make me a channel of Your Peace. Where there is darkness let me sow light. Where there is sadness let me bring joy."
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Adversity Arrives
Peace was difficult to find in 1984 when, after having housed young pregnant women free of charge in her own home, Kathy was fined $10,000 by the state of New Jersey for running an illegal boarding house. Her story appeared in newspapers along with numerous television news programs. State Senator Gerald Cardinale sponsored a bill exempting non-profit groups from the legislation.
When final approval seemed impossible, Kathy was inspired to contact Mother Teresa of Calcutta. The Noble Peace Prize Winner happened to be in New York to accept an award at the United Nations and, coincidentally, the topic of her speech was the rights of the preborn. Mother Teresa wrote a letter of support, which convinced those opposed to the legislation to change their minds. The fine was removed and Kathy's work became legal.
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Over the years, Kathy's work has received many honors. Most memorable was in 1988 when President Ronald Reagan invited her to the White House. In a letter which followed her visit he wrote, "Thank you so very much for the framed photographs of some of the 'Several Sources' Children. I truly appreciate having this touching reminder of the inestimable value of human life. Again thank you and may God bless you. Sincerely, Ronald Reagan."
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| The Work Grows (www.lifecall.org)
Kathy soon found out that she wasn't the only one worrying about teen mothers. After hearing about her struggles, a CPA and lawyer, Richard Ryan, took up her cause and offered his N.J. Shore Summer home so she could take in more mothers. Mr. Ryan became Treasurer of the Foundation and decided to sell his house in Sea Isle City and in 1989 he donated the proceeds as a down payment for a second home in Ramsey, N.J.
In 1990 Msgr. Thomas McCarthy and the parishioners of Our Lady of Good Counsel Parish in Washington Township, N.J. offered their Convent as the Foundation's third shelter. Then in 1994 the Rainis Family of Mendham, N.J. donated a home in loving memory and honor of their parents.
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| The Garden of Life
In 1993 our memorial "Garden of Life" was dedicated to help ease the turmoil and the fear of an unplanned pregnancy. Among the flowers are beautiful photographs of babies. As loved ones are remembered, lives are being saved. When our young women walk the grounds, they are often heard to say: "You people really make me feel special. This is the first time since I found out that I was pregnant, that I can feel that someone cares."
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Chastity (www.chastitycall.org)
While the young women are awaiting the births of their babies, they are counseled on abstinence and attend chastity workshops. They are taught to resist temptation and encouraged to develop a value system that would help them to avoid the heartbreak and risks to their physical and mental health that could be the consequences of their behavior.
Part of the support system employed at the various shelters involves encouraging the girls to take a chastity pledge. To firm the commitment, following the birth of their babies, they are given a chastity ring to wear.
The young women then make a promise to wait until marriage to engage in sexual activity and they agree if they break that promise they will remove the chastity ring
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The Internet & The Choice Game (www.thechoicegame.com)
In 2000, over 800,000 visitors came to our websites and more than 35,000 spent 15 minutes or more learning and participating in them. There is no doubt that youth love the Internet and computers. Therefore, Several Sources has created an interactive CD ROM and a website called "The Choice GameTM" as a further aid to teach the merits of abstinence. The game places the players in real life situations where they must choose from a variety of computer images who they wish to date and what they will do on that date. The player can learn critical life skills in a safe environment.
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"Ladies Rest"
Shelter in Newark, NJ
(www.helpthepoor.org)
For many years Several Sources volunteers had been working in a church basement and using vans to Zapoverty and needy of the inner city. In 1997 the years of serving the poor of the inner city were blessed with the opening of our fifth Shelter called "Ladies Rest" in Newark, N.J. Three businessmen with kind and generous hearts pledged to pay the rent for the first three years. We had to raise the operating expenses. So now Several Sources has a daytime shelter for women of all ages. Some are battered or victims of other forms of abuse.
Our daytime shelter is needed to compliment other nighttime shelters in Newark where the homeless are only allowed to sleep. The homeless ladies come not only for a safe place to stay but also for help in putting their lives back together. The women are given clothing, provided with financial aid for medicine, transportation to job interviews and if they are unable to work, they are helped with social services and encouraged in every way possible to become independent and self sufficient. Prayer and spiritual support and guidance are an important part of each day.
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Special Families "Care Packages"
In addition to Kathy's tireless efforts, there is a dedicated paid staff at each shelter and volunteers who do everything from transporting the girls to manning the hotline and assembling Special Family "Care" Packages which go out monthly to 80 or more needy families. The packages have a theme that coincides with the month in which they are sent. September's package may contain school supplies for the children in the families.
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They all contain one religious article, a faith-based letter from Kathy and gift certificates for food. Packages may also include medical supplies and clothing. From time to time individual benefactors "adopt" one of our special family children. Two examples include Michael whom we met when he was 5 years old and homeless. Now, through a benefactor, Michael is the recipient of a full scholarship to Seton Hall Prep. Nine-year-old Betty had corrective eye surgery due to the kindness and generosity of our benefactors. |
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GolfDreams (www.golfdreams.org)
For two of the past three summers we have sponsored an inner city program for children that include weekly golf lessons at a local driving range and a Golf Tournament with benefactors. We are seeking the funds and volunteers for our summer programs.
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In June of 1999 Several Sources Shelters became a Non Governmental Organization (NGO) of the United Nations with Special Status. NGO's participate in the work of the U.N. and are able to be part of the legislative process through conference participation and new issues raised by NGO's in public session at the U.N.
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In partnership with the United Nations Women's Guild Several Sources has helped needy children throughout the world including one of our benefactors sponsoring a trip to Washington, D.C. for 8 children who suffered from radioactive contamination of the Chernobyl Nuclear accident.
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This entire effort is sustained solely by private donations. No state or federal funding is used at this time, although we have applied for a Federal Grant to help fund the secular version of "The Choice Game". Funds currently are raised through free will offerings at churches, mailings, charity golf outings, dinners and raffles. Note: Several Sources is a 501-C3 Non Profit I.R.S. recognized charity.
Every day is a struggle. Several Sources continues to need the support of many kind benefactors and advocates to survive and grow. Each day we have to raise over $5,000 to just maintain our current work. We pray this small summary might inspire you to support us in our efforts to help many more of God's children in need.
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